During my last days in Japan, there were farewell parties. At that time, I had a lot in my head and couldn't write about them. But it's something that I really couldn't skip. I had planned to post this the day I left to Japan. As it wasn't possible, plans changed to the day I arrived (considering the time passed, not local time)
So, first there was a exchange students farewell party on Feb 9th. More especifilally, the students at the Shosha campus that are staying for one year (Silvia, Win - from Thailand, a Korean whose name I forgot... sorry, and me). Simple and basically only us and our Japanese teachers (volunteer teachers that gave classes at the university), but even so nice. That's the point where we started seeing persons from Himeji for the last time. That time, some teachers and students.
Next, there was the Himeji Gang surprise party on Feb 11th. I commented that one
previously.
On 13th, Vinny (Australian), Ou (or O... don't know how to write the name in romaji... Chinese), Silvia and me did a farewell party on our own. We were the regular Japanese class (at the university... by regular I mean included and registered as one of our classes) students and decided to meet one more time before going back (only the Chinese girl wasn't a one-year student). That one was funny... western style I could say. We had planned karaoke, but it was crowded, so we went bowling at a place Vinny knew... plus some games (there was finally a DDR there... but I was just too rusty...). After that, a sushi restaurant nearby (something we would miss back to our countires).
14th. This time the ESS (a.k.a. English club) farewell party. Impressing the capacity most Japanese have to be responsible and organize things... As far as I know, one girl from the club organized it all... with some help from other members. A small dinner at the
kinenkan (something like memorial/commemorative building. I know it as a second restaurant at the university...) followed by bowling and karaoke (you might think "it's always the same!" Well... it IS! those are the two main forms of having fun in group in Japan). There was even a plaque (humm... is this right?) with messages... in English (note it is an English club... and Portuguese was out of question). It was also Valentine's, so some chocolates (giri or friendship, before any strange thought arises...).
(Time to say sorry to the aikido club for not going training that day... but I really had that scheduled a long time before...)
Then 18th. Vinny's farewell party at Roxy club. Seeing farewells from another perspective (it was HIS farewell party and I stayed silent). Also, some laughs with some situations (for those who know, I'm talking about the crazy twins...)
19th. USJ with Fabio and Claus. I might consider that "farewell from Brazilian students" since it was the last time I met one (except silvia, of course). Well... it was my 5th time there... but with different company is always interesting (plus the combination Fabio and Claus is surely entertaining...)
22nd. Lunch with my Egret volunteer teacher. Since the end of 2005 we couldn't have classes with her, but all of us wanted a last meeting at least. Think I can say she was probably our best Japanese teacher, although the one that gave us classes for the shortest time... Too bad I lost contact completely now... and she isn't even in Himeji anymore.
24th. My last day at the lab. As all the students there (except me) were busy with their presentations (for their graduate projects) no parties... I didn't announced anything before it was too late, too, because of their presentations... Even so, I got some farewells and a last-minute thought present... already eaten. Later, a last meeting with some people from the Himeji gang at Tiger Pub... I wasn't in the mood for smokey places, but it turned good in the end.
Finally 25th. Last day and the busiest one. Meeting the frisbee group for the last time, then a "former members meeting" (OB会) with the aikido club. These meeting are usually a training followed by dinner when members that are already past the 3rd year (when they usually "retire") participate together with regular members. I couldn't go to the training, but I managed to go to the dinner... I know that's bad (take only the light part), but I had no choice really... I couldn't go earlier and I wanted to meet them one last time.
I just didn't expect a homage during the dinner... and a T-shirt with messages from all (or almost). I'm not emotional, but they almost made me cry with that... After all, I was just for one year with the club and that was an occasion with former members, some they usually don't see too (what means there're a lot of senpais to think about... more a less...).
After the dinner, some decided to challenge me on
KOF one last time... Some matches later (the year changed again... and again to one I'm not really good... KOF 2001. Even so... オレの勝ちだ! Well... most times I should say...) I had to meet some people from the Himeji Gang... but it was raining and I had to go by bike... So I sent a message (using a friend's phone since mine was cancelled already) and... some people that were there decided to go to karaoke too! But another one. Thinking about it, I should have asked to go to the same place where the gang was... at the time that didn't come to my mind... Sorry.
Also, there were other occasions. Karaoke, Starbucks meetings ans dinners with the gang; meetings with people from the university (from professors to secreteries and employees)... All that made me happy. During this year, I met lots of people. Some I may meet again someday, some only through the Internet and some I may never hear about ever again. Even so, all of them contributed someway... for me to learn something... for fun... for helping me... From my closest friends to the lady at the cafeteria, all who recognized me while I was there, thank you.
Hope I was also able to make some difference into your lifes as you did in mine. Then one of my objectives will be complete... I wrote on the paper about the "reasons for going to Japan" for the scolarship examination: "(...) As I believe that knowledge is not a one-sided, I hope people there can learn something from me, even if it’d be only about Brazilian culture (but I expect more than that)."